I am a girl who has tons of guy friends. Im just used to being around guys more than girls, but I guess most girls would rather be around boys then other females cause girls are fuckin PSYCHO!!!
But I didnt want to get into that cause that would take a up a few blogs just on that topic alone... What I wanted to vent on was how it sucks when you make a new friend that is a guy and you are really excited about this new friend cause he is super chill and funny and just you click really well on a platonic level...and then for shits and giggles you throw in a lil sex every now and then...
Now thats where you mess things up...Nothing good comes from sex with "friends" unless you plan on dating them at some point. then someone starts catching feelings and things get ugly when the other isnt catchin the same feelings, or they were catchin feelings but then someone came into their lives that they have stronger feelings for. Someone will always get hurt and things will never be the same. I wish life was easier!!!
Adding a bit more to the post I wanted something to be said...I LIKE FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS DONT GET ME WRONG!! but whens its a one sided friendship with no string attached u run the risk of someone getting hurt...Ive gotten hurt before and so have others, its a 50/50 risk of losing a friend but if its worth it I see no harm in it...
HOORAY for Birthcontrol and Condoms!!!
mayneeeeeeeee. a lil sex leads to a lot of things. don't be thrown off by the "lil" part. Its like biggie smalls.... its more of a play on words than anything
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